SMALL GROUP QUESTIONS

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Message Snapshot:

In this powerful message, we're challenged to confront family drama during the holiday season with Christ-like love and wisdom. The core of this teaching revolves around Jesus' parable of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15, reminding us of God's boundless love and forgiveness. We're encouraged to ask God for His perspective on difficult family members, seeing them through His eyes of compassion. The message emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, urging us to examine our own hearts and reactions before judging others. It provides practical wisdom on choosing our battles wisely and setting healthy boundaries, all while maintaining a spirit of forgiveness. This teaching is especially relevant as we navigate complex family dynamics, reminding us that as recipients of God's immeasurable grace, we're called to extend that same grace to others, even when it's challenging.


 Key Takeaways:

  1. Ask God to give you His eyes for difficult family members.
  2. Pay attention to your own heart and emotions in challenging situations.
  3. Pick your battles wisely.
  4. Set healthy boundaries with family members.
  5. Forgive others as Christ has forgiven you.

Discussion Questions:

  1. The pastor mentioned asking God to give us His eyes for difficult family members. How might seeing someone through God's perspective change how we interact with them?

  2. Reflect on a time when you reacted poorly to family drama. How could paying attention to your own heart and emotions have changed the outcome?

  3. The sermon discussed the importance of picking your battles. Share an experience where you chose not to engage in a conflict. What was the result?

  4. How do you distinguish between enabling bad behavior and showing love to family members? Why is this distinction important?

  5. The pastor emphasized the importance of forgiveness. What makes forgiveness challenging for you? How can we cultivate a heart of forgiveness like Christ's?

  6. Discuss the statement: "Christians are not stingy with forgiveness." How does this challenge or encourage you?

Practical Applications:

  1. This week, before interacting with a difficult family member, take a moment to pray and ask God to help you see them as He does.

  2. Practice asking yourself, "Does this need to be said? Does it need to be said right now?" before engaging in potential conflicts.

  3. Identify one area where you may need to set healthier boundaries with family members. Discuss with the group how you might implement this boundary.

  4. Take time to privately reflect on any unforgiveness you may be harboring. Commit to praying for those who have hurt you, asking God to bless them.

  5. If you're struggling with forgiveness, share this with a trusted friend or group member and ask them to pray with you about it.

Closing Prayer: End the session by praying for each other, asking God for the strength to apply these principles in your family relationships, especially during the holiday season.